My sweet “little” cousin — she was six years my junior — has been gone for a year and a week, and she’s been on my mind.
I always thought of her as the tag-along kid, a gentle, exuberant spirit with a huge laugh who glided behind or beside us on gossamer slippers, drinking us in, imbibing our heartbeats but never seeking to judge, only to know our rhythms in order to synchronize hers. . . .
She wrote poetry, sometimes in English, sometimes in Italian . . . .
What the eyes take in
The heart cannot contain
In contemplation and wonder,
The landscape unfolds
Changes breathes lives
Choruses of wind and sun
clouds and birds
Welcome bless and dance
Colore vibrante sonoro d’autonno
Vive l’intensità del suo essere
Una manifestazione delle potenzialità innate
Un seme che porta l’energia dell’espressione
Color parlante entenso
Improvviso concerto d’autunno.
We miss her. She lived in Italy in her last years, and I didn’t see her often enough, and when I did see her, she was in the bosom of a family hungry for her presence, so there was never enough time to just be. And yet she is all around me. . . .
I wrote this the day after she died, and I am placing it here as my tribute to her dynamic anima, to her abiding love, to her immortality.
The email said you’d gone,
But I know better.
You’re still here. I know you are.
I sense your presence even in this city,
My city, whose weight you long since left behind.
I feel you in the cooler breezes blowing in off the North Atlantic
Tickling my nose, making me sneeze,
Delighting me with reassurance
This awful summer’s nearly done, and
Joy of autumn color’s close at hand.
I smell your perfumes in the fragrant salt sea air
That drifts through my window when the city rests,
When the churning gases of industry belch a little less,
And the noxious poverty covers itself with the darkness
That spreads like healing balm around us.
And also in the vanilla-honeyed sweetness of roasting peanuts
At curbside pretzel stands.
I hear your laughter among the children playing hopscotch
Riding scooters past my café table
Where I’ve come to write a remembrance of you.
And there you are singing – Puccini, then Verdi and Bizet—in my IPOD buds.
Now I hear you once again in the murmur
Of voices from beyond. A murmur I only occasionally notice
But one you heard, distinctly, long before any of us
Knew they were there.
I taste the memory of you, of the meals we cooked in Eugene on
That saffron soft sweet savory day we escaped another summer’s brutal heat
And cavorted on the beach
Knowing even then how fleetingly we flew.
Tears of adolescence long since dried,
We reveled in our abundance of joy.
See what I mean?
The email said you’d gone, but you are everywhere around me.
Vibrant in color, light and sound,
As you were but different, freer,
Moving nimbly, lightly past the pleasure and the pain.
You always seemed as light as air to me,
Moving with the grace of one propelled by spirits
And by a joy from somewhere else.
I see you dancing, always dancing
In the sparkling , gentle brownness of my Abigail’s eyes.
You dance divinely, I tell you, and you smile
So patiently at my pedestrian observation.
You smile on, knowing what we all know . . .
Or will . . . soon enough.
Oh soon enough, sweet, melancholy; but keeps her still alive. Thank you Carla
What a beautiful tribute